Cost of PhD 脑残的代价

In China, many parents are pride of their children who have achieved a degree of a PhD or a post PhD etc. However, the research in the UK shows that over 50% of PhD professions suffer from depression and mental illness which result great difficulty in their personal and social life. What do those parents want? a health next generation or a namely higher educated mental ill child? if a person who damaged his/her own brain by extremely studying, how can their parents be pride of with? Strangely and stupidly by those type of parents! the pride of such thing is only for covering their parents' fear. but the scarfing costs the individuals life. Is it worth?

Many real cases happened in my network. But, I can't help them directly as the stupidity by their parents! God bless them please! Some Chinese are becoming mad! now!   

Lie makes rich! 谎言致富！

After four-year absence from this blog, I finally come back. The first thought here is about the word of lie. I have spent lot of time to teach organisation to improve its performance for sustaining its profit. However, it is mission impossible without touching the topic of human behaviour change. The Johari window is always the first theory in my teaching.
Interestingly, even if people know everyone lies, but, if you openly talk about their lie, often, you receive a great denies about their lie. After introducing the Johari window, finally, they will admit they lie all the time, because our society is full of fear now. They use the lie to defence their fear. The formula of percentage of their lie is depended on the percentage of their hidden personality plus their blind knowledge against unknown profound of knowledge. the more lie indicates more hidden personality in front of someone for some reason.
However, all lies result stress and no peace for mind rest. Someone uses lie to make their rich, in return, it builds up their bad karma.

If you want to live a deep happier life, don't lie whatever you can!