Wild love 晤野晤愛

My colleague told me he has 10 girl friends at same time, all of his girl friends demand marriage, he just scare from them as he is a wealth man and has big family farmer, sheep's, holiday homes in France and Spain. He divorced for five years. I laugh at him as 'a lucky man'. He said he is unlucky. The man, in my observation, is not a such good behaved person as always rude, f* word, woman, sex, money and car in his mouth over hundred times a day in office, always arrogant, bossy, defensive and fussy to other colleagues. During working hour, he can talk to many girl friends a day. but his boss, another stranger English ex-pat, pensioner just turns a blind eyes. Nobody knows what they two do. I have observed them for the purpose of my PhD study. It gives me more data on comparing behaviours between English and Chinese. I talked to other colleagues, this man will have more other women as his behaviours are not good enough in theory but enough bad to be loved by women.

Human do love bad behaviour always. It calls love at hate. for example, beautiful women love men's pockets. Handsome men are able to womanising with beauty, sexy and don't care about women's mindset and kindness. You can find all those evidence through our society. This is animal behaviours as majority of human have no brain. for instance, if singers dress up sexy and wild, this will result more fans to follow and more sales on their albums. Paint artists, if they paint in wild behaved, it will result more consumers to love and gossip, then, the paints will become famous and high sales. Very few art works, if painted behaviour good can become famous shortly. Maybe people do feel bored if anything is ideally good. Maybe people don't really understand or care about what art is about. Maybe, the word of art is a fashion. Maybe, human is just animal. Maybe ...

The wild makes up dynamic, anger, challenge, debate, controversial and so on but all of them indicate opportunity. In the monkey world, the head of monkey is the worse behaved animal in its group. One bad behaved male monkey can have hundred female followers. Also, one bad behaviour female monkey is able to have hundred male follower. So, to love the hate is part of animal world. Human can not be distinguished from animal initial.

So, why do we need behaviours ourselves? Just relaxing and back to wild as bad behaviors as we want.